12 reasons to get hot under the covers

by Jane Surtees

How often do we come across something that’s fun and good for you? Not often, right? Well here’s some good news from the doctors for a change – more and more studies are showing that getting intimate with your partner can boost your health.

No partner – no problem, since many of the purported health benefits come from orgasm and you can fly solo to achieve that one. But if you do have a partner and they’re not often in the mood, try sharing these positive side effects of regular sex to arouse their interest.

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You’ll sleep better

We all need it, and most of us need more of it, so it can only be a bonus that orgasm releases prolactin, a hormone that makes you feel more relaxed and sleepy, the US-based National Sleep Foundation says. (That might account for the reason why your man starts snoring immediately after sex!) It works the other way too – studies have also suggested that the more rested you are, the more sex you want.

You’ll boost your immune

Researchers at Wilkes University in US found that people who have sex a couple of times a week received a boost to their immune system with a rise of 30% in levels of an antibody called immunoglobulin A, which can protect you from colds and flu.

You’ll look younger

Sounds too good to be true, right? Well Scottish clinical neuropsychologist Dr David Weeks, who’s done a lot of research in this field, says that his experience has been that older men and women with an active love life look five to seven years younger than their actual age. And quality is as important as quantity – so sex has its best effect when it’s “loving”.

Weeks says this effect is due to a combination of factors including the release of endorphins (which act as natural painkillers and reduces anxiety and aid sleep), the circulation boost from exercise, and the release of the human growth hormone that makes the skin look more elastic.

You’ll get fit

It may not burn as many calories as going for a run – unless you’re particularly energetic in bed – but it does count as exercise. A team from the University of Montreal revealed men burned around 100 calories in an average sex session (typically 25 minutes including foreplay in this study) and women managed about 70. Not a huge gain but a roll in the hay also involves using your muscles (experiment with different positions to use different muscle groups) and pumping up your heart rate, which can only be good. And just like any exercise, the benefits increase the more you do it.

Having sex three times a week could halve your risk of having a heart attack or stroke.

Research from Queen’s University Belfast, UK

You’ll improve your heart health

Research from Queen’s University Belfast in UK found that having sex three times a week could halve your risk of having a heart attack or stroke. Another study in Israel found that women who had two orgasms a week were up to 30% less likely to have heart disease than those who did not enjoy sex or didn’t have an orgasm. And a tumble under the covers has also been linked to preventing an increase in blood pressure during stressful events, says a Scottish study from the University of Paisley.

These advantages come from general good health practices like taking aerobic exercise, the stress reduction factor, and in women specifically, orgasm stimulates the release of the hormone oxytocin that has a direct effect on lowering blood pressure.

You’ll boost your brain power

Boffins at the universities of Coventry and Oxford linked frequent sexual activity to improved brain function in older adults. Those with the highest level of lust and thrust – more than once a week – scored the best in tests relating to attention, memory, language and spatial performance.

Scientists believe the brain boost is most likely due to the release of various chemicals during sex, most notably dopamine, which is the main fuel of the brain’s reward centre and plays a major role in learning. Another possibility is that frequent sex helps the brain grow new neurons, which is vital to the brain’s ability to adapt and change.

You’ll reduce your prostate risk

Men who ejaculated more than 21 times a month were 33% less likely to get prostate cancer than those who didn’t, says a study from various US universities including Harvard. No partner is required, because wet dreams and masturbation were also part of the equation. The reasons for this haven’t been confirmed but it does discredit the old wives’ tale that masturbation is bad for you.

You’ll have better bladder control

Urinary incontinence affects about 30% of women at some point in their lives. Having regular orgasms works your pelvic floor muscles, which helps stem the flow of urine. These muscles weaken during pregnancy and menopause and keeping them strong and toned is important. Orgasm or Pilates – the choice is yours!

You’ll boost your libido

Having sex improves the act and makes you want it more, experts say. Biologically, a roll in the hay increases women’s vaginal lubrication, blood flow and elasticity, which makes sex feel better so she’ll want it more. Frequent romps also help release more pheromones in your body, and it’s these chemicals that increase your appeal to the opposite sex.   

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You’ll improve your fertility

Semen tests have shown that the baby juice is at its best within two days of having sex, and its potency drops off dramatically after 10 days of abstinence. And for the women, regular lovemaking has been associated with helping to regulate periods and balance hormones, both of which improve your chances of hitting the conception jackpot.

You’ll cure headaches

Yes, you read that right. When your partner complains they have a headache, you can tell them about the findings of a team of German neurologists who concluded that sexual activity can lead to “partial or complete relief” of head pain in some migraines. They reckon it has something to do with sex triggering endorphins, which are like natural painkillers.

You’ll be happy

An often-quoted Swedish study found that quadrupling sexual frequency from once a month to once a week boosted happiness as much as having an extra US$50 000 in the bank. There are physiological reasons – sex lifts your endorphin levels by putting more dopamine and oxytocin into your brain – and there are psychological reasons too.

Research by Swiss and Canadian psychologists suggests that it’s actually all that touchy-feely stuff after sex that puts a smile on our dials rather than reaching climax. Sex, they say, promotes affection and a stronger and more positive connection with your partner. In other words, erotic quality is at least as important as erotic quantity.

“Sex seems not only beneficial because of its physiological or hedonic effects, but because it promotes a stronger and more positive connection with the partner,” explained the lead author of the study, Dr Anik Debrot.

Sources: everydayhealth.com, mirror.co.uk, news.com.au, psychologytoday.com, telegraph.co.uk, thesun.co.uk, time.com, webmd.com