Your guide to buying your first sex toy

by Tatum Whiting

The sexperts want to help you make “me-time” a really good time – here’s what you need to know when choosing a sex toy.

Ready to spice up your (sex) life? Buying our first sex toy could bring out the giddy girl in all of us – but it’s also incredibly empowering.

Get ready to take your sex life into your own hands! If you can’t make love to yourself, how are you going to make “love” to somebody else? Or whatever RuPaul said. It’s time to celebrate your body and take pleasure to new heights! Here are some questions to ask yourself when choosing the perfect toy for you.

What sensation are you looking for? Whether it’s vibrating, licking or rumbling. If you’re yearning for a quick “O”, a vibrating toy will help you orgasm quicker – and a rumbling toy provides a longer sensation for those who need more time to climax. For those who enjoy oral sex, clitoral suction devices are your best bet!

Are you looking to enjoy vaginal, anal or clitoral stimulation? Consider whether you would like to explore your G-spot with vaginal stimulation or if you enjoy butt or clitoral play instead. If you’re not sure what gets you off faster – even more reason to explore more and try the fantastic toys at your disposal. From dildos to vibrators and anal beads – the world is your oyster and Adult Luxury has you covered!

Should you be worried about the effects of a toy on your sex life? Masturbation is not only touted to have a host of positive mental effects, it could also help your body recognise sexual sensations and stimuli and improve your sex life.  A little solo play goes a long way, but the fun is always better shared, so open your mind to exploring more. Consider the positive effects a toy could bring without using it as a reason to not get out there and meet someone special.

What’s your budget? There is a plethora of toys and local stores available. Research ingredients, chemicals involved, and materials used. Be sure to always stick to a reputable shop to ensure you can have fun, safely and where your satisfaction is guaranteed. Check out Adult Luxury, South Africa's Number 1 Adult Store for trustworthy, body-safe sex toys of the highest quality and safety. 

Is it for yourself, will you use it with a partner – or both? Once you open your mind to enjoy the wonders of sex toys, the most important question to ask yourself could perhaps be whether it’s for yourself or if you’ll enjoy it with a partner. This will determine the type of toy based on the pleasure you’re seeking; how discreet you need the toy to be – and what material you’ll search for. A vibrator is a great all-rounder, and a good vibrating ring goes a long way with a partner. The fun is found in the experimental stage, after all.

Whatever you choose, don’t forget the lube!

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